The warning signs and symptoms of child abuse and neglect can vary from child to child. Disabled children may be especially vulnerable to abuse, increased vulnerability relates to children and young people's impaired capacity and limitations with communication and mobility.  They may have speech, language and communication needs which may make it difficult to tell others what is happening.

By having an understanding of the warning signs, you can respond to problems as early as possible. It is important to recognise that a warning sign doesn’t automatically mean a child is being abused or experiencing harm or neglect.

There are a number of warning indicators which might suggest that a child may be being abused or neglected.

Physical abuse

What is physical abuse?

Physical abuse is deliberately physically hurting a child. It might take a variety of different forms, including hitting, pinching, shaking, throwing, poisoning, burning or scalding, drowning or suffocating a child.

Physical abuse can happen in any family, but children may be more at risk if their parents have problems with drugs, alcohol and mental health or if they live in a home where domestic abuse happens. Babies and disabled children also have a higher risk of suffering physical abuse.

Physical harm may also be caused when a parent or carer fabricates the symptoms of, or deliberately induces, illness in a child. Physical abuse can also occur outside of the family environment.

Signs of physical abuse

Some of the following signs may be indicators of physical abuse:

  • Children with frequent injuries;
  • Children with unexplained or unusual fractures or broken bones; and
  • Children with unexplained:

– bruises or cuts;

– burns or scalds; or

– bite marks

  • Child or young person may be withdrawn, acting out of character by showing signs of internalising their stress, upset and anxiety where you see them experiencing feelings of worthlessness with low self-esteem.  Children and young people could also be exhibiting externalising behaviours, a change in character, showing outwardly agressive, challenging or self destructive behaviours.

Emotional abuse

What is emotional abuse?

Emotional abuse is the persistent emotional maltreatment of a child. It is also sometimes called psychological abuse and it can have severe and persistent adverse effects on a child’s emotional development.

Although the effects of emotional abuse might take a long time to be recognisable, practitioners will be in a position to observe it, for example, in the way that a parent interacts with their child. Emotional abuse may involve deliberately telling a child that they are worthless, or unloved and inadequate. It may include not giving a child opportunities

Signs of emotional abuse
  • Children who are excessively withdrawn, fearful, or anxious about doing something wrong;
  • Parents or carers who withdraw their attention from their child, giving the child the ‘cold shoulder’;
  • Parents or carers blaming their problems on their child; and
  • Parents or carers who humiliate their child, for example, by name-calling or making negative comparisons.

Sexual abuse

What is sexual abuse?

Sexual abuse is any sexual activity with a child. You should be aware that many children and young people who are victims of sexual abuse do not recognise themselves as such. A child may not understand what is happening and may not even understand that it is wrong. Sexual abuse can have a long-term impact on mental health. 17. Sexual abuse may involve physical contact, including assault by penetration (for example, rape or oral sex) or non-penetrative acts such as masturbation, kissing, rubbing and touching outside clothing. It may include non-contact activities, such as involving children in the production of sexual images, forcing children to look at sexual images or watch sexual activities, encouraging children to behave in sexually inappropriate ways or grooming a child in preparation for abuse (including via the internet). Sexual abuse is not solely perpetrated by adult males. Women can commit acts of sexual abuse, as can other children.

Signs of sexual abuse
  • Children who display knowledge or interest in sexual acts inappropriate to their age;
  • Children who use sexual language or have sexual knowledge that you wouldn’t expect them to have;
  • Children who ask others to behave sexually or play sexual games; and
  • Children with physical sexual health problems, including soreness in the genital and anal areas, sexually transmitted infections or underage pregnancy.

Child sexual exploitation

What is child sexual exploitation?

Child sexual exploitation is a form of sexual abuse.  It occurs where an individual or group takes advantage of an imbalance of power to coerce, manipulate or deceive a child or young person under the age of 18 into sexual activity (a) in exchange for something the victim needs or wants, and/or (b) for the financial advantage or increased status of the perpetrator or facilitator.  The victim may have been sexually exploited even if the sexual activity appears consensual.  Child sexual exploitation does not always involve physical contact; it can also occur through the use of technology.

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Signs of child sexual exploitation
  • Children who appear with unexplained gifts or new possessions;
  • Children who associate with other young people involved in exploitation;
  • Children who have older boyfriends or girlfriends;
  • Children who suffer from sexually transmitted infections or become pregnant;
  • Children who suffer from changes in emotional well-being;
  • Children who misuse drugs and alcohol;
  • Children who go missing for periods of time or regularly come home late; and
  • Children who regularly miss school or education or don’t take part in education.

Neglect

What is neglect?

Neglect is the ongoing failure to meet a child's basic needs.

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Signs of neglect
  • Children who are living in a home that is indisputably dirty or unsafe;
  • Children who are left hungry or dirty;
  • Children who are left without adequate clothing, e.g. not having a winter coat;
  • Children who are living in dangerous conditions, i.e. around drugs, alcohol or violence;
  • Children who are often angry, aggressive or self-harm;
  • Children who fail to receive basic health care; and
  • Parents who fail to seek medical treatment when their children are ill or are injured.